Updated: Jan 17
Making new friends is not always easy when you become older or should I say aged well like a good bottle wine LOL
Do you really want to make new friends or want to find a partner?
I would suggest that you make a list of what you can offer, what you need and what is a deal-breaker for you.
I can offer ........ because ........
I need/want ........ because ...........
This is a deal-breaker for me ........ because ........
Make the list with minimum 5 point of each.
Read your list everyday and believe it.
Don't show the list to your new friends or partner, this is your private list.
But if you want me to give you feedback on it and go through it with you - of course I am here for you, and it will be 100% confidential. No charge I will do it for free, just email me.
When you are clear of what you want and need, The Universe will do the rest!
You attract what you are, but you also attract what other people need from you, like what you have or do.
They want it too, it could be confidence, fashion style, where you live, job, open about your life and so on..
Your mission everyday if you choose to accept it:
Make the list!
Give a stranger or friend a compliment everyday.
I really love your jacket where did you get it?
Nice sunglasses, I wish I could look as cool as you wearing them.
Nice perfume - I love it, what is it?
Help a stranger or friend.
Do you need help getting that product on top of the shelves in the supermarket?
Can I help you with the correct directions? Where are you from?
Help an old lady/gentleman with the shopping bags crossing the traffic light.
For both parts above, finish with a warm handshake or a pat on the back.
If you know them, just give them a BIG warm hug and thanking them for being in your life!!
Do this for minimum 21 days - everyday - remember this is your mission 007.
At first this might feel strange and un-natural for you, but trust me - it will change sooner than you think.
People will start to remember you as a warm, positive and friendly person, yep you!!
After 21 days of doing this, your energy has changed to a more positive vibe.
Don't be sad if it didn't work out the way you wanted it to be, because nothing leaves your life without being replaced.
There is a reason why things end.
It is okay if you don’t fully understand why right now, time will provide you with more answers.
Continue moving forward, and trust that better things is on the way.
And remember, you don’t meet anyone by accident, there are 7 types of cosmic connections.
1) The Heartbreakers
These are the people who come into our lives and really make us feel on top of the world only to throw us off the edge of the building. They break us in more ways than we ever thought were possible but in doing that they teach us a very hard lesson. That lesson is different for everyone and each heartbreaker we face might have something new in-store.
2) The Eternals
These are the people who come into your life and stay in your life. They support you and become lasting friends or close family members that never shy away. They have your back when you need them and the universe uses them to comfort you in many ways.
3) The Runners
These are the people who come into your life and quickly change you. These changes may be positive, or they might be overly negative, that varies. They do not stick around for long and when they leave you feeling like they have taken a part of you with them.
4) The Reminders
These are the people who come into your life to remind you of something. They sometimes stick around for a while but usually are only here for a moment.
5) The Teachers
These are the people who come to you to teach you something. They have a lesson ready for you whether they realize it or not.
6) The Learners
These are the people who come into our lives to learn from us. You see, we don’t always have to be the ones learning. Sometimes we can be the teachers.
7) The Empowerers
These are the people who really push you to do and be who you want to be. They come into your life at the perfect time and really empower you.
You should read the full article! Its a quick read, easy to understand and it makes good sense.
Now you have some good tools and understanding how to make new connections.
SO go out there and make some New Fabulous Best Friends Today!
I believe in you 💯%
Have a great day!
Ps I was inspired to write this post by one of my Facebook friends from Sitges.
- You know who you are ;-)