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I will share my thoughts and my life experiences with you.
I will write about life - how I see it!

I know some will love it and others will say it's too much,

but it's my life and my story! 

I believe in you 💯%
Have a great day!
Peter Julius

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Love and in love are two very different things, so lets break it down.

You might want to read it two or three times before it makes sense, I did.

Loving someone is about how they make you feel.

Being in love is about how you make them feel.

Loving someone means you are concerned with how he/she makes you feel loved, special, or appreciated.

Being in love means you worry about how to make him/her feel loved as well, because that's equally as important to you.

- Now read it again.

You can read the full article here about 8 Differences Between Loving Someone & Being In Love


I also find this very interesting - The 5 stages of love.

Not many gay couples makes it past stage 3 unfortunately, I am one of them and not by choice..

"You may think the grass is greener on the other side. But if you take the time to water and take care of yours, it will be just as green!"


Love Stage #1 - The Passionate Beginning

Love Stage #2 - Things Start to Get Serious

Love Stage #3 - Disillusionment

Love Stage #4 - Real Love

Love Stage #5 - You Start Making a Difference Together


The Love Stage #3 (which generally happens after 2-4 months)

When you reach this stage, you have a choice to make. You can do one of the following:

End the Relationship - When you do this, you're going to establish a pattern. Every serious romantic relationship is going to reach this stage sooner or later. If you don't stick it out this time, you'll eventually wind up here again with a different person.

Settle for Mediocrity - This is a popular choice for couples that don't believe in divorce or people who would rather be comfortable instead of starting over with someone new. They assume that this is just how their relationship is going to be, and they don't try to change it or leave it. They simply find ways to coexist with their partner.

Push Past It - Couples who are determined to last without settling for mediocrity learn how to push past the disillusionment stage. They figure out how to reconnect and deepen their love for each other. This is when you realize that love is a choice and that you have to choose it every day.

You can read the full article here about How To Last Through The 5 Stages Of Love

How to feel better about yourself?

I made a list of things of what I can offer, what I want and what is a deal breaker for me in a relationship.

The list might be out-of-this-world-crazy for the wrong person, but for the right man/woman it is just pure common sense!


I wrote it down on a piece paper the old fashion way, you know pen and paper.

What I can offer in a relationship?

What I want in a relationship?

What is a deal breaker in a relationship?

10 points from each question and the reason why.

It was so nice and clear to finally see what I can offer, want and don't want in my life.

You should try it too, I would love to go through your list with you and give you some feedback. Send me an email with your list when you are done!


Besos ♥ Peter Julius xx


Updated: Jan 24, 2020

As I said in an earlier post I am a relationship kinda guy, I like to take care of my man and get the same in return.

I miss Tuesday and Wednesday nights dates, making dinner together or go out for sushi and edamame - hhhmmmm they are soooo gooood!!

- and maybe spill a little soja sauce on my new shirt, yep that's me LOL

Spending the weekend together doing stuff, enjoying the company, talk about life, go for a drive or walk, meeting our friends, holding hands in the city or just hang-out doing nada.

Sleeping next to each other and just turn around in the middle of the night and give him a kiss cheek and say "Te Amor" then go back to sleep.

Not to forget, the great versatile monogamous sex just become better and better.

More playful and more exciting. You trust your partner more and more, you share your wildest naughtiest sex fantasies with him and oooohh those deep wet kisses! Love it!!


- But I am single for now, so this above has to wait for a little while longer.

I know, I will find someone who wants to have the good life with me.


From being single I have learned more about myself in the past few months that ever thought I would in such a short time, and I am happy for that.

My communication skills has become much better lately, but I'm also taking less BS!

I want to see more action and less talking!


I believe in you 💯%

Have a great Sunday!

Peter Julius

Peter Julius
Peter Julius in Barcelona

How people treat other people is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves..


In the beginning of the month I got this message from my friend Rich in the US.

It just came out of the blue.

"I didn’t realize you and Robert were flatmates. I’ve been chatting with both of you a couple years and didn’t realize. I love this. You are both so friendly with me so it’s awesome you are friends. Two beautiful men with beautiful hearts. Rare these days."

So nice and heartwarming to get a message like this


And this one from my friend Josh, also from the US:

"If I were there, I’d take you for a drink!"

Why can't gays in Barcelona be more like this?


- Just wanted to share something positive.


Besos ♥ Peter Julius xx